Asshole Management

How to Cope with, Live with, and Work with Jerks Without Losing Your Mind

A Transformational Guide by Elaine Pytluk, LCSW

Welcome to the Ultimate Guide for Navigating Life’s Assholes

We all know them. They’re at work, at home, in the grocery store, and sometimes staring back at us in the mirror (oops). They twist words, avoid accountability, and have the uncanny ability to make your blood boil.

But here’s the truth: assholes aren’t going anywhere. The good news? You can learn to deal with them like a pro—without sacrificing your sanity, dignity, or emotional well-being.

Enter "Asshole Management": the ultimate playbook for understanding, managing, and (if necessary) banishing life’s most challenging personalities. Whether they’re a boss, a sibling, a partner, or that overly aggressive guy in your group chat, this book equips you with everything you need to stay grounded, confident, and in control.

Knowledge is power—and this book gives you exactly that. Delve deep into the psychology behind what makes difficult people tick, guided by the secrets and insights of seasoned psychotherapists. Armed with this insider knowledge, you’ll understand the motivations behind problematic behaviors, anticipate potential conflicts, and gain the practical skills to overcome the emotional obstacles these people place in your path.

In short, you'll have the therapist’s secrets at your fingertips—empowering you to handle even the most complicated personalities with ease.

**Why You Need This Book**

Understand the Behavior: Discover why ordinary people can turn into full-blown jerks and what drives their behavior.

Identify the Types: From “Angry” to “Hardcore” to “Pathetic,” learn the eight key types of assholes and how to handle them.

Set Boundaries Like a Boss: Protect your peace with strategies that work.

Find Your Inner Calm: Say goodbye to stress with practical, no-nonsense tools to de-escalate the chaos.

Empower Yourself: Build unshakable confidence, emotional resilience, and self-acceptance.

What’s Inside?

All About Assholes: Why do people act this way? A deep dive into the psychology of jerks.
Self-Empowerment: Build the confidence and self-awareness to hold your ground—even when they’re being the worst.
Triggers & Buttons: Learn to spot the signs of an impending meltdown and avoid setting it off.
Freud for Beginners: Understand the id, ego, and superego and how they play into asshole behavior.
Banishing Toxicity: Know when to walk away and how to do it effectively.

Meet the Author: Elaine Pytluk, LCSW

"Assholes are life’s uninvited teachers. They force us to grow, develop boundaries, and tap into strengths we didn’t know we had. This book will help you do just that—without losing your mind in the process."

Elaine is a seasoned psychotherapist with over 40 years of experience helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life’s challenges. She holds a certification from the prestigious New York Center for Psychoanalytic Training and is known for her eclectic, no-nonsense approach to psychology.

Elaine’s career has included teaching popular courses like Psychology for Everyday Living and Psychology in Film, leading adult education programs, and helping clients gain confidence and control over their lives.

Her passion lies in showing people that alongside their insecurities are untapped strengths. In "Asshole Management", Elaine merges psychoeducation, practical advice, and humor to help you thrive—even in the face of chaos.

TESTIMONIALS

What Readers Are Saying

"Packed with 'aha' moments"

"Asshole Management is a game-changer for anyone ready to set boundaries, build stronger relationships and reclaim their peace of mind. It offers fresh and enlightening perspectives on why difficult people act the way they do—The book is a relatable, refreshing and witty guide to handling all types of challenging personalities, with each chapter striking a perfect balance between psychological theory and practical strategies."

- Sonia Rifkind, Editor and Art Critic

"Deeply engaging and thought-provoking"

"Asshole Management is an excellent book for those serious about learning, personal growth, and empowerment. As a psychotherapist, I found the concepts explained in a way that is both accessible and deeply insightful. The techniques are practical, doable, and accompanied by clear examples, showing readers exactly how to apply them to their lives. The book’s insights are enlightening, teaching readers how to shift negative thoughts into empowering ones, enabling them to rise above criticism and judgment. Deeply engaging and thought-provoking, with just the right touch of humor, it offers invaluable resources for self-discovery and personal transformation. For anyone ready to focus and grow, this book is a must-read."

- Paulette Braha, MA, LMHC

"This book is the key to having healthy relationships"

"Elaine expertly uncovers the roots of challenging behaviors and provides practical strategies to understand and navigate them. She offers invaluable keys to fostering healthier relationships and greater harmony."

- Cathy Verhulst, MS, LCSW

Who Is This Book For?

Employees

dealing with toxic bosses or coworkers

Spouses or partners

trying to navigate controlling or defensive behavior.

EDUCATORS

Managing students or colleagues who push all the wrong buttons.

Parents

co-parenting with an ex who’s hostile and uncooperative.

MANAGERS or BOSSES

Leading teams while navigating toxic or challenging personalities.

Anyone

feeling drained by manipulative, defensive, or argumentative personalities.

If you’ve ever said, “Why are they like this?!”—this book is for you.

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